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Is Forgiving Yourself Biblical?

There is nothing in the Bible that mentions forgiving yourself.  Such a concept is unbiblical and worldly.  Forgiveness is from the one against whom you have sinned.  Ultimately, when we sin, we sin against God and break His law.  But also, sometimes our sin can be against another person when we break the Law of God.  For example, if we lie to a person we have sinned against God and that person, so we need to receive forgiveness from both.

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James Ricci
What do you know about self-injury?

Self-harm can also include less obvious ways of hurting yourself or putting yourself in danger, such as driving recklessly, binge drinking, taking too many drugs, and having unsafe sex. These are behaviors that misdirect and anesthetize your painful feelings and thoughts. Self-injury is not necessarily an attempt to commit suicide. Instead, it signifies intense emotional pain.

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Setting Up Boundaries with Adult Children

As long as we continue to keep enabling our adult children, they will continue to deny they have any problems, since most of their problems are being “solved” by those around him. Only when our adult children are forced to face the consequences of their own actions—their own choices—will it finally begin to sink in how deep their patterns of dependence and avoidance have become. And only then will we as parents be able to take the next step to real healing, forever ending our enabling habits and behaviors.

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The Effects of Abortion not talked about!

In 1973, the United States Supreme Court struck down every federal, state, and local law regulating or restricting the practice of abortion. This action was based on the premise that the states no longer had any need to regulate abortion because the advances of modern medicine had now made abortion "relatively safe."

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Emotions Good or Bad?

Emotions are tricky. Everyone has them. Everyone struggles with them. Many struggle with how they feel more than anything else in their lives. Then, there is the sea of other people’s emotions in which all of us swim. I suspect most of us consider emotions to be more of a liability than an asset.

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Thoughts on Gay Rights!

First of all, the church should not panic. The Supreme Court can do many things, but the Supreme Court cannot get Jesus back in that tomb. Jesus of Nazareth is still alive. He is still calling the universe toward his kingdom. How should you respond to the success of the gay agenda? Should you accept the recent trend toward tolerance? Or should you side with those who exclude homosexuals with hostility and disdain? 

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What do women want in a relationship?

Women aren’t opening because men aren’t giving them what they need. Women feel disappointed and resentful; they are suffering. When women suffer, and they feel like they aren’t being seen, they close off to their men.

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Does Perception Equal Reality? No!

“Perception is reality.” I saw this phrase in bold letters on a man’s t-shirt on a recent trip to Starbucks. While my first reaction was to dismiss the t-shirt’s philosophy without a second glance, on further contemplation I realized that its message was deeply important.

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